Alan Smith Robertson – Don’t try to change me

This song comes with a worksheet to use in the classroomPractice adjectives of personality with this song, Don’t try to change me by Alan Smith Robertson.

These song lyrics include 20 adjectives of personality: generous, hardworking, outgoing, strong, reliable, sensitive, perfect, unique, selfish, unsympathetic, lazy, unfriendly, unsociable, bad-tempered, moody, happy, sad, jealous, insecure & stubborn.

This song comes with a worksheet and and is also available on Spotify as well as for download in mp3. To see other suggestions on how to use this song in class, click here.

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Lyrics

VERSE 1
She said that she wanted a generous man
Hardworking, outgoing, with family plans
Strong and reliable and sensitive
I told her that man didn’t exist

CHORUS
So don’t try to change the way I am
I know that I’m not perfect and I don’t give a damn
Don’t try to change me, I’m unique
Don’t you try to change me, You won’t succeed

VERSE 2
She said I was selfish, that’s how she began
Unsympathetic, that I don’t understand
She told me I’m lazy, and that I live like a pig
She said I’m unfriendly, an unsociable freak

CHORUS

BRIDGE
Why should I care what others think? What’s the big deal?
Why do you care what they think of me? Why do you worry?

VERSE 3
I told her she wasn’t that much of a catch
Bad-tempered and moody, first she’s happy then sad
I said she was jealous and so insecure
She insisted she wasn’t, ’cause she’s stubborn too

CHORUS

Suggested activity: fill the gaps

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Listen to the song, and fill the gaps with the adjectives that you hear: bad-tempered, generous, happy, hardworking, insecure, jealous, lazy, moody, outgoing, perfect, reliable, sad, selfish, sensitive, strong, stubborn, unfriendly, unique, unsociable & unsympathetic

She said that she wanted a _____________ man
_____________, _____________ with family plans
_____________ and _____________ and _____________
I told her that man didn’t exist

CHORUS
So don’t try to change the way I am
I know that I’m not _____________ and I don’t give a damn
Don’t try to change me, I’m _____________
Don’t you try to change me, you won’t succeed

She said I was _____________, that’s how she began
_____________, that I don’t understand
She told me I’m _____________, and that I live like a pig
She said I’m _____________, an _____________ freak

Why should I care what others think? What’s the big deal?
Why do you care what they think of me? Why do you worry?

I told her she wasn’t that much of a catch
_____________ and _____________, first she’s _____________ then _____________
I said she was _____________ and so _____________
She insisted she wasn’t, ’cause she’s _____________ too

If you enjoyed the song or if you think it will be useful for your students at least, remember this song comes with a worksheet and is available on Spotify as well as for download in mp3.

Don't try to change me, a song for practising adjectives of personality in the ESL classroom